Showing posts with label America. Show all posts
Showing posts with label America. Show all posts

Sunday, June 7, 2020

Black Lives Matter

Dear UD,

On May 25, George Floyd, a black man, was killed on the streets of Minneapolis by a white police officer who was kneeling on his neck during an arrest. In under nine minutes, Floyd died. During those nine horrific moments, captured on video, Floyd cried out for mercy, for justice, for his mama. “I can’t breathe.” I can’t breathe. I can’t breathe. He said this over and over again until all his breath was gone from this world. Gone forever.

Once the video was released and the nation and world witnessed this appalling and atrocious event, it responded with horror and action. Protests, riots, social media posts, news articles, the whole world is watching, but more importantly, the whole world is taking action.

It’s so unbelievable, Uncle David, that America needs civil rights action in 2020, but here we are. It has all gone on too long. There’s no justification for what happened. It doesn’t matter what he did, where he’s from, what he was doing, what race he is. NONE of that matters. George Floyd was a man, a human being who deserved the same treatment as ANY other human being. I’m not talking about some liberal agenda, political agenda, or negative stance against police officers. The police have a challenging job, one that I could never do. There are so many courageous, considerate, strong officers out there, and I have nothing but respect and admiration for them and how they serve their communities. However, there is no room for prejudice and racism in a vocation such as police work or education.

Police brutality, racial profiling, black men in prison, unjust treatment because of skin color…all of it has gone on for too long. White privilege has gone on too long. Systematic racism has gone on for too long in America. It is time for a better country, a better world.

UD, I thank God that I was raised to be accepting of other cultures and races, to embrace diversity, to stand up for what I believe in. Because that’s where it starts. It all begins with how we view the world and how we teach our children to view the world.  In my narrative titled, “Beauty in the Spice of Life: An International Playgroup,” first published in Good Works Review 2018, I wrote:

How do we teach our children diversity and acceptance? How can we help them see beyond color and language to people and their hearts? As recent headlines show, these are still important questions in the twenty-first century.

It all starts with what we pass down through the generations; I am grateful that I learned these vital qualities from my parents through conversations, books, movies, music and then passed them down to my own children, using love, exposure, and conversation.

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In this group, we were learning to pass it along, generation upon generation, through love, exposure, and conversation. Children have an innocence that automatically welcomes and that can be nurtured. When my children were toddlers, I started an international playgroup and exposed them to food and kids and clothes from around the world. I read books to them about other cultures, and we talked about the differences and similarities. Even when they were babies, I bought a board book that is simply the song, “Jesus loves the little children, all the children of the world,” and is illustrated with children from various cultures. I bought my daughters white American Girl dolls that looked just like them, but I also bought them Native American, African American, etc. dolls as well. I took them to local International Festivals every year and took photos for their albums. We watched movies about Dr. King, Rosa Parks, the Civil Rights Movement, women’s rights, Gandhi and so on. When my children became teenagers, we hosted foreign exchange students every summer, and my daughters now have French and Spanish sisters.

UD, I ended that essay with this, “…the importance of unity, difference, community, and the innocence and acceptance of children. Our lives are enriched when we reach beyond the common white bread of our culture into the difference, diversity, yet oneness of others.”

My whole life I have lived this way, taught my own children these values, and passed along these values to my students in the classroom. I teach that silence can be a form of violence and the importance of living our beliefs. I post articles and memes on social media designed to inspire and encourage acceptance and justice and critical thinking. But this week, all of that doesn’t feel like enough. I feel so enraged and powerless, impuissant, that things like George Floyd’s death are still happening in our country.

I am distressed and horrified. So much so that I have felt compelled to action. Called to take action that publicly and visibly shows my beliefs and that stands on the side of justice and mercy and truth and compassion and acceptance.

So last night I attended a Peaceful Protest at Canova Beach Park with a friend of mine. In some ways, it was nerve-racking while in other ways it felt right and emotional and effective. Laina helped me make a sign which read “Equal justice for all. #icantbreath #blacklivesmatter.” I picked up Rebekah and drove to the protest. Before stopping, we drove by, honking our support to those already gathered together, to scope out the situation since we’d heard rumors of plans to attack or mace the peaceful protesters. There were police cars nearby for protection, but everything looked okay. After doing a u-turn, we drove back to the area, and we were appalled to see a counter-protest across A1A near Keywest Bar. While there weren’t a lot of people gathered on that side, it was jarring and simply terrible to see the Confederate flag flying next to the American flag flying next to Trump 2020 Keep America Great flag right here in Brevard County.

We found a parking spot at Canova Beach, donned our masks, and walked over to stand proudly with the 300 Black Lives Matter protesters. For thirty minutes or more, we stood on the side of the road, holding our sign, waving at friendly people who drove by and honked their support, joining chants like “I can’t breathe” or “Black lives matter” or “No justice, no peace” or “Say his name. George Floyd,” and being part of something important and necessary.

At the same time, across the road, the counter-protesters continued waving their flags. I don’t understand how you can protest justice and equality?! I found it ironic that they held the American flag “‘Cause the flag still stands for freedom,” and okay, the freedom/right to protest is covered under that; however, what about the freedom/right to equality and justice and purity and valor that our flag stands for?! One lady was so drunk that she kept yelling obscenities and demanding that we “go home.” Then, one man arrived across the street with a full-sized portrait (as in the picture was taller than him) of white Jesus, and he started walking up and down the road, waving white Jesus around. UD, you know that it angers me when people use God to justify evil, but to show up at a peaceful Black Lives Matter protest with a misrepresentation of Jesus?! I have no words.


Thankfully, everyone in our group remained peaceful yet purposeful. At one point, we all “took a knee” for the eight minutes and 46 seconds that the police office knelt on George Floyd’s neck and in honor and respect and silence for those who have lost their lives because of racism and police brutality.

Ultimately, I felt empowered to participate in civil action, to join thousands around the nation and world in demanding justice, equality, and accountability. It cannot stop here. It cannot stop now. It started with George Floyd’s last breath and will not stop until we can all breathe as free and as just as one another.


George Floyd leaves behind family, loved ones, children. Although his death is a horrific tragedy, he leaves behind a legacy of change as the world has joined together to stand for justice. Together, we stand. Together, we protest. Together, we say ENOUGH.     

UD, I know that you and Mom and Dad would all stand with me. Missing you all.

Love, Rach

PS: Photography by Rebekah Raddon

Thursday, November 10, 2016

End Result versus Process

         
        Donald Trump was elected as the next president of the United States of America earlier this week, and in the past two days, I have seen many reactions ranging anywhere from fear and shock to delight to sadness. From mourning to gloating to protesting. More than ever, Americans are divided and the extreme ends appear to be pulling even further apart. I, too, have had many emotions this week, and underneath it all, something kept nagging at me. I mean I was both stunned yet not when Trump won the election because I have feared that our country was headed towards something like this. After all, it was a rough election year, and too many people expressed frustration and hatred towards the political world to which Clinton belongs. Furthermore, more and more people popped up with racist and sexist rhetoric or actions this year. A country controlled by a police state and/or a religious right, that is what I have worried about. And, I’m not talking about being concerned about a country that loves God, but about a country that hates God or that abuses His name. For instance, check out these novels: It Can’t Happen Here by Sinclair Lewis, The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood, Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury, 1984 by George Orwell, or The Hunger Game series. And read this entire essay along with all of its links. 
          In the past two days, many of those on the “winning” side have been telling the country to get over it and move on, despite those who threw temper tantrums (and even spouted racist rhetoric over the past eight years). We just need some time to mourn. Also, we ask that those who voted for Trump attempt to understand our concerns (see above paragraph for some of mine). I know people who voted for Trump, and I understand why they thought they needed to even if I don’t agree with them; I ask for the same consideration from them. 
In the past two days, I have seen those on the “losing” side split into two camps. One camp consists of those who are protesting and/or throwing a fit. Peaceful protest is a right in this country and taking positive action is something that should be happening; however, violent protests, riots, destruction of property, and hateful words are not acceptable. For instance, check out this list of organizations. Find a positive way to create action and change through civic engagement and responsible citizenship. The other camp is inspiring, and many of my friends are in this camp. They are mourning, yes, but they are also calling for positive action, calling for our country to come together, calling for us to use our talents/words/creativity to express ourselves. I applaud them and am proud to call them friend.
Donald Trump is the president elect, and as Americans, we must either honor this fact or find non-violent ways to protest it. Either way, something else has been bothering me for the past two days. What concerns me is this: What lesson have we taught our children from this election? What lesson are we saying is just fine and dandy for our country, for America, and thus, for the world?
First let’s consider the absolute best scenario in the situation we have in front of us. In fact, many have called for everyone to come together and work with Donald Trump, so let’s say we do so. Trump was elected as the next president, and let’s say he takes office with everyone’s support and in the end our fears are unfounded. Trump becomes a wonderful president and does amazing things and in reality Makes America Great Again. Let’s say that happens. Yes, you say. I’d be happy with that, you think. Wait a minute…you are forgetting a very important point. Even if that happens, Trump should not have been elected because of his actions and words!!!!
If I ranted and raved and publicly spouted racist and sexist comments for months, mocked a disabled person, dishonored a veteran, and so on, I would never be hired by a college in the United States again. I just wouldn’t. In fact, I would lose whatever teaching jobs I currently hold. What about you?! Imagine that you did and said the same things that Trump has done and said over the past year. How would your work life be looking?!
A lesson this election result teaches is that the end justifies the means.
Might makes right.
In fact, I have heard people say that Trump was doing those things in order to get attention in order to market himself and win votes. Whether he did so because that’s what he believes or as a publicity stunt doesn’t matter. The fact is that he did them.
And, as I have been reminded recently, many believe that Clinton has done some terrible things too, but that misses my point. It’s true that no human being is perfect, but this goes beyond that and into reprehensible words and actions in full view of the public. Maybe we need a complete overhaul of the process of running for, voting for, becoming president (though we should carefully consider that and research why our Founding Fathers set up the electoral college the way they did before we move to revamp it)? Or perhaps what we need is better options to choose from?
Regardless, let's consider these questions:
Do we teach our children that the end result is all that matters?! That it’s okay to cheat as long as they get an A in the class or win the game? That it’s okay to plagiarize someone else’s work as long as they get a good grade? That it’s okay to make fun of someone if it will help them be class president? That it’s okay to kick the kitten or puppy or to bully others if it will help them be popular in school? 
To the contrary. I have watched friends and family raise their kids, and I know that many of you teach your children similar ideas that I teach my daughters: to work hard, to do their best, to take responsibility for their words and actions, to be compassionate and kind, to support/build rather than compete/tear down, and to be the change they want to see in this world. 
Furthermore, I teach process in college composition classes, and the students hate it. They hate that we spend weeks writing and revising and editing the same essay, but it’s that process that teaches them so much and that helps them end up with not only a stronger paper but also pride in the fact that they did it!
It’s process and practice that helps anyone be good at anything.
I don’t want the world I live in to be one where might makes right and where the end result is all that matters. And that is one of the reasons that I have been upset about the results of this election.


I wrote the above and left to go to meet my family to watch my nieces and nephews sing in their Fall Program. And, I returned home feeling better because I was reminded of unity and community in our daily lives. I saw a town come together: we stood and sang the national anthem with the children, and we applauded veterans from all branches for their service. At the end, the children sang lyrics that brought tears to my eyes and that reminded me of what’s important now. First graders of Houston, Missouri sang, “United we stand, divided we fall,” and they poured their hearts into it. Tonight reminds me of the importance of discourse and community and of the significance of the things we are doing in our daily lives such as how we raise our children and the values we instill in them. Tonight leaves me with hope for our families, hope for our communities, hope for our country.
God bless America, land that I love.